tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post5244682060978161816..comments2023-07-11T10:42:13.457+02:00Comments on flora amalie's (still) untitled blog: Now that i knowflora amaliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03516346205652330565noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-76309237726323241852015-01-13T22:05:22.292+01:002015-01-13T22:05:22.292+01:00Aw man, i'm so sorry to hear that.
Even if we ...Aw man, i'm so sorry to hear that.<br />Even if we don't know each other, you're right, pain at deceit feels the same to everyone.<br /><br />I've managed to put this particular liar behind me. He's in the past and that's where he's gonna stay. I hope you're able to do the same with yours.<br />Big hug back at you! :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-2228219254457748102015-01-13T22:03:18.329+01:002015-01-13T22:03:18.329+01:00Yeah, blogspot is not the best for iphone and ipad...Yeah, blogspot is not the best for iphone and ipad comments haha.<br /><br />Thanks so much for reading, and for your kind words. Obviously i'm a little over men at the moment, but i haven't given up hope completely yet :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-60901450817884154082015-01-13T22:01:49.877+01:002015-01-13T22:01:49.877+01:00Hi Mia, thanks for finding my blog, i'm happy ...Hi Mia, thanks for finding my blog, i'm happy you like it!<br />I'm sorry you're going through a hard time too, but we will survive and we will become stronger. However much of a cliche that sounds like, it's still true :)<br /><br />Thanks so much for your commentFlora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-47359507093941553932015-01-13T18:54:46.780+01:002015-01-13T18:54:46.780+01:00I feel you. I had also a heartbreaking end of my r...I feel you. I had also a heartbreaking end of my relationship & while it was so short. I loved him so much, for what he said & what he did for me. Six days after we broke up, he told me he was dating his ex already (the reason we broke up because he suddenly had her in his head). Happened now exactly 8 days ago. He know how hard I had it and I thought he had it to. But still he decided to reply on my message when I asked how he was, very careful "That he was doing great exactly!" <br /><br />All lies. Everything feel like lies. And then he blame me for getting in a rage mode & he was mad at me. <br /><br />I feel you. I know we don't know each other. But this pain is universal & I just, maybe, finding comfort in "you're not alone" helps. Hug. BIG HUG <3 Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-69175219352019133282015-01-13T15:54:04.450+01:002015-01-13T15:54:04.450+01:00I was trying to comment on your blog many times bu...I was trying to comment on your blog many times but it looks trying to do it on Ipad sucks.Anyway...I am your regular reader and Insta follower. Just want to say that I know that one day you will meet someone who deserve you and you will be happy again. I truly believe in that. You are awesome and you deserve the best! <br /><br />CameliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-27804924679638634152015-01-13T15:39:52.808+01:002015-01-13T15:39:52.808+01:00Dear Flora Amalie
I have been following you on In...Dear Flora Amalie<br /><br />I have been following you on Instagram for awhile and have just discovered you great blog today! <br /><br />This post will definitely help me heal! Thank you for sharing. I am going through a breakup too and like you, I fell like I have lost my identity. I fell like parts of the person I was has been "killed" because so much of who I felt like I was, I was because of the man I was with. Somehow it helps to know that others have survived and has become stronger. So thank you! :) <br /><br />Hugs, Mia Miahttp://www.mia-mad.dknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-3504100488027552872015-01-08T22:24:38.608+01:002015-01-08T22:24:38.608+01:00t has been some year, but a great one too in many ...t has been some year, but a great one too in many ways. I never would have gotten close with my best friends if it wasn't for the drama and breakups, and even the douchebag in this post brought me great happiness at one point.<br />Thank you for your kind words :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-50291313507913038472015-01-08T22:22:18.178+01:002015-01-08T22:22:18.178+01:00Thanks, since coming out of the total shock phase,...Thanks, since coming out of the total shock phase, i've been trying to tell myself the same thing. I do generally see the good in people, and that sometimes bites you in the ass.<br />Words do help though, peoples comments and support make me feel less alone and less like an idiot, which is what i need right now. And writing is helping me heal. Words are good.<br />That poem is too :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-85748382092483191232015-01-08T22:02:55.825+01:002015-01-08T22:02:55.825+01:00That´s one hell of a year ! But happiness is a ski...That´s one hell of a year ! But happiness is a skill and you're good at seing the best in every situation. You're right not to blame yourself, we girls have all been abused at least once by brain eaters, there is no why, the y're merely ordinary psychopath ! You re dealing things with great dignityNolwennnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-19620482015930922712015-01-08T21:17:32.600+01:002015-01-08T21:17:32.600+01:00I had the vibe that this had happened. I know I ca...I had the vibe that this had happened. I know I can't say anything to make you feel better. As you sadly know already - it's a process that takes time. It rocks your very core and makes you analyse yourself to exhaustion. Don't do that to yourself. Know that you are a trusting and loving person and seeing past what now may be obvious in retrospective, doesn't make you weak. It means you have a big heart and see the good in people. He is the flawed person in this scenario, hugely so, and I imagine very unhappy inside. Anybody who can hurt and use people like that has to have deep issues, I don't think it can ever be as simple as just being a player, or a dishonest pig (he's all of those too). It's cruel, hideous and unfair. <br />I know none of that helps the gravity of the whole shitty situation. I'm sorry it's just a bunch of words. But, peaking of words, I have a part of my favourite poem in my head, it always brings me comfort:<br /><br />Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. <br />You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. <br />And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.<br /><br />I wish you all the best lady. Good on you for being open <3Katie Thirkillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11701314334811216054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-67319016571983388982015-01-08T21:15:49.379+01:002015-01-08T21:15:49.379+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Katie Thirkillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11701314334811216054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-62340544304486102432015-01-08T20:12:18.950+01:002015-01-08T20:12:18.950+01:00Oh, that's annoying. Blogger sucks sometimes!
...Oh, that's annoying. Blogger sucks sometimes!<br /><br />The comments here and on facebook have been amazing. It's so nice that people can sympathize without pity, and i guess a lot of people have been through something similar, if not the same.<br /><br />Your description is super accurate, by the way. Thanks for sharing :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-36966230441893613892015-01-08T17:18:10.638+01:002015-01-08T17:18:10.638+01:00Now my post has been deleted..I don't understa...Now my post has been deleted..I don't understand why :<<br /><br />All I wrote in it was that I thank you for your thoughts. They are indeend encouraging and I hope that the comments here do the same to you. <br />Everyone who has been with a person who doesn't care but manipulates and plays with you, knows this cold, steely feeling which crawls out most clearly in silent moments. But you feel numb and overtaxed at the same time because that person sucks all the energy out of your body and brain. It's human not to be able to make the right decision at that moment.<br />I send you a hug from CologneKarolinehttp://acacampaxoa.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-57481484728053081172015-01-08T15:37:50.391+01:002015-01-08T15:37:50.391+01:00Whoa, i'm really sorry to hear that.
But it...Whoa, i'm really sorry to hear that.<br />But it's a natural response to getting fucked over that much, you just can't help but be cynical!<br />I'm happy you found Ryan.<br />And yeah, the fact that he was my friend too, and knew every single detail of my past breakup is one of the reasons i kept trusting him. Because i just couldn't imagine that he'd lie to me, knowing everything that happened. That would just be cruel and he never struck me as a cruel person.<br />I'm definitely in no condition to meet anyone serious for a while!Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-38411432710137430262015-01-08T15:33:20.049+01:002015-01-08T15:33:20.049+01:00Thanks so much Mona! :)Thanks so much Mona! :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-5426567194982863632015-01-08T15:32:18.537+01:002015-01-08T15:32:18.537+01:00Thank you, best to you as well :)Thank you, best to you as well :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-49471717527417486132015-01-08T15:31:54.167+01:002015-01-08T15:31:54.167+01:00Yay for internet indeed, although i swear i'm ...Yay for internet indeed, although i swear i'm the most approachable person you'd ever meet :)<br />Thanks for the advice, i am trying to see the good in people, but just be less trusting, i guess.<br />But it's a fine balance :)Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-35848843796043024882015-01-08T15:30:06.122+01:002015-01-08T15:30:06.122+01:00Haha, thank you. I think i do too.Haha, thank you. I think i do too.Flora Amaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611367458171075255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-62346212182249643642015-01-08T14:40:48.179+01:002015-01-08T14:40:48.179+01:00I've been cheated on like 45 times, I don'...I've been cheated on like 45 times, I don't know what it is. It made me into a really bitter cynical woman for years. I became pretty mean to guys, and started using them right back. <br /><br />When I met Ryan I felt like it was weird that I was dating a nice person. What does that say?? Like, shouldn't I deserve a nice person? I didn't think so.<br /><br /> I didn't let him say I was his girlfriend for over a year, and I tried to break up with him a bunch but he stuck around somehow and eventually (and really REALLY slowly) I learned to trust him. But it was a lot of work for both of us. <br /><br />Anyway yeah, it's fucking BRUTAL getting cheated on. I hate that this second guy knew everything that happened and went ahead and fucked you over anyway. What kind of a person does shit like that? Seriously. Totally selfish, totally narcissistic, totally MEAN. <br /><br />I'm sorry that happened. Take your time trusting again, it's ok if you don't for a while. If you meet the "right person" or whatever during that time they will wait. <br />Novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00178775859002061186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-17668175439166616722015-01-08T13:37:06.180+01:002015-01-08T13:37:06.180+01:00You are strong and great and such an inspiration t...You are strong and great and such an inspiration to me and to many other people, I´m sure! Keep fighting! Monanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-85262378644715460922015-01-08T06:51:32.624+01:002015-01-08T06:51:32.624+01:00I've had the same thing happen to me before an...I've had the same thing happen to me before and trust me it's better to know. You're hurting right now but things always get better. :) best wishes. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03563555059508621850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-45382353678518649162015-01-07T22:54:40.235+01:002015-01-07T22:54:40.235+01:00Ive followed your blog for a good while now, and I...Ive followed your blog for a good while now, and I realise that I probably cant say much, if anything, that will matter to you. Ive never been cheated on, and your whole life is very different to mine, but you are such an inspiration to me, You seem to me to be such a strong, fierce woman, but also very vulnerable and with a shell that would likely make me not ever dare to talk to you in real life. So yay for the internet :)<br />Anyway, I dont judge you or anyone else for doing whatever they feel they need to do in a situtation such as the one you were in, and cheating can happen to the best of people. You've definitely experienced some hardship in your life, thats obvious to me. But please, please try to believe in the good in some os us out here, and please try to keep a softness inside, instead of growing tough and callous. <br />Peace and good thoughts to you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8027556973128237456.post-56681772394860960352015-01-07T22:34:33.334+01:002015-01-07T22:34:33.334+01:00He's a fuckhead and you deserve better.He's a fuckhead and you deserve better.<br /><br />attackoftheraebothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04166830075653863924noreply@blogger.com